I recently found a book I must have bought for my kids years ago—The Truth about Dating, Love, and Just Being Friends by Chad Eastham. Curious, I opened it and came across a passage that made me smile because it described something Chris once did with me, and something Colton later did with his fiancée, Kerry. I hadn't realized why it was so attractive until I read this excerpt, but it suddenly made perfect sense. Chad writes: "At some point, if a guy likes you, he needs to look you in the eye a